Deal breakers in relationships are one of the favorite party game questions of many. It involves sharing your ultimate deal breakers or ultimatum in staying with your future partners. While it’s all fun and games, what would you do if the deal breaker became your dog who is always waiting for you at home? Such a thing happened to a man from Craigslist when his girlfriend gave him an ultimatum, threatening to choose between her and his pup.
This unnamed man has found his perfect relationship with a girl he’s been dating for four years now. Now that they’re on the same page of their relationship, they are ready to make the next step and that involves moving in together.
However, his girlfriend told her that she would only move in with him if he got rid of his Beagle named Molly. Devastated, the man took his frustrations to Craigslist as he decided to create a genius advertisement.
The man posted the picture of his Beagle Molly, as well as a long caption explaining the reason why he had posted the advertisement. The post says that his girlfriend doesn’t like Molly, so he has to rehome her. He went on and on, explaining the advantages and disadvantages of her as well, as her lifestyle.
Toward the end of the post, the man asked if anyone was interested in rehoming… his girlfriend. 😂The her in his post actually refers to his girlfriend and not Molly, which is why there are weird disadvantages, such as “she will never greet you at the door” and “[S]he can be mean as hell.” We know for sure Molly would never do that!
Truly, being in a relationship with a fur parent is a buy one, take one deal! So, if you’re no dog lover, better avoid fur parents as they will always choose their fur babies!
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Can Dogs Be a Deal Breaker?
Dogs can certainly be a deal breaker in relationships, as not liking dogs can be a huge issue when having relationships with dog lovers. In fact, three in ten pet owners will reconsider the relationship if their pets don’t trust their partner, according to a survey conducted by Direct Line Group. While the numbers may not be high enough, it doesn’t change the fact that dogs are deal-breakers to some.
Compatibility with dogs is crucial in a relationship, and before you two make it work, you must have decided on the decisions and rules to play upon when a dog enters your relationship. As we all know, they are like children since they are our responsibility once we become their owners.
The reality of the situation is that dogs require time and dedication. You must give in to all their needs, which a person who isn’t fond of dogs won’t understand. If your partner is one of them, make sure that both of you are on the same page before fully committing in stages.
Managing Relationships With Your Dog and Partner
Now that your partner has accepted you and your dog, you must learn how to manage your relationship with your dog and partner. Let them know each other first for them to get comfortable with one another. Here are some tips to establish between you and your partner:
- Open Communication – If your dog does something that your partner dislikes, you should learn how to deal with it. Perhaps proper training or medical help will do? Likewise, if your partner did something that you don’t appreciate him or her doing, tell it to them.
- Incorporate pets into quality time – Since your on a mission of introducing both of them to each other, let your dog hop in on some activities or errands with you and your partner. At the same time, invite your partner to tag along during a potty walk outside, play at the park, or visit the veterinarian.
- Establish routines and responsibilities – Since having a relationship with a dog lover is buy one, take one. With that, your partner must also be ready for responsibilities such as feeding the dog, taking them outside, or taking them to the veterinary clinic. It’s one way of showing them that you want them to be a part of your dog’s short life, too.
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From The Club
For me, a dog is the ultimate deal breaker! If you can’t accept my dog, then we can’t be together. I do respect his decision of not wanting a dog but I couldn’t give my dog up and put them for adoption as I think that it’s completely heartless. This is a call for dog owners to face the responsibility and choose someone who is going to love their dog as well.
